Why are you looking at this kind of document? Learn to speak Giraffe! Ever heard of Marshall Rosenberg? He is sobre founder of ‘ nonviolent communication'. And with this non-violent conversation, he works with to handpuppets: one of a jackal, and one of a giraffe. Because giraffes have biggest center of al country animals en nonviolent communications is the language from the heart. This individual uses the jackal like a symbol for language that seperates all of us from each other and that makes violence in to something to relish.
When I first been aware of non-violent communication, I thought the definition of nonviolent was obviously a bit weird, because how may you communicate strongly? But now I think different about that, and I are able to see clearly how a certain all of us of communicating does result in violence.
With no sharing with you all the intricacies of non-violent communication, I wish to let you know several basics, because it can really help you to change conversations for the better. For this I use the Dutch Publication ‘The jackal and the giraffe within' via Justine Mol.
To give you a clue, a conversation among two jackals:
A: Friend, if you don't immediately turn your automobile, I will get the police. B: I won't, I have to go into that direction. If you just let me personally pass, that would be appreciated. A: I'm looking to do my own job in this article! Now turn around, or I am going to kick your vehicle! B: We don't let you threaten myself. Get the law enforcement officials, and we will see where the night takes us.
And now a giraffe (A) who aren't cope with the jackal of the other person (B) and turns into a jackal himself:
A: There may be half a " lemon ". Maybe you can use it pertaining to the fruit salad, do you want to utilize it for that? M: Don't affect the cooking food!
A: (thinks: she wants to have her own space and is today irritated) Okay, I make you to it. B: You retain on annoying me! Constantly when I i am trying a fresh recipe, you begin asking almost all kind of questions. Leave myself alone! A: (now it can be getting to much for A and he evolves into a jackal by guarding himself) O, you think I really do this...